Happiness Should Be the Goal

Happiness Should Be the Goal

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Are you happy with your life right now? How do you feel about the way that things are?

If you’re not happy with how your life is, don’t you think that you need to be honest with yourself and start being happy? Things are only going to change when you make them change.

I do think that we need to start having those difficult conversations, whenever we need to. That’s the only way to grow. We can’t avoid being honest with ourselves.

We should avoid ignoring, at all costs, the things that we’re not happy about.

Why? Because you deserve the best from this world! The only way to get that is to be absolutely honest.

Honesty starts with oneself.

When you’re being honest, happiness should be the goal.

Your Mood Defines You

The way that you feel about something or someone will define your interactions with that something or someone. Others will also feel how you’re feeling.

If you’re not feeling so good, then… things are not going to go so well. How do you want things to play out?

If you’re not giving out your best, every single time that you can, then what are you doing? You need to start giving your best, always.

The energy that you give out into the world is the energy that you’ll be receiving. Everything is made out of the same energy. We’re all energy.

The way that you feel when you interact with others will define how they interact with you.

Start giving out your best! What are you waiting for?

Fulfillment & Honesty

If you’re not feeling fulfilled with your life right now, do you think that you need to be honest with yourself? If so, start being!

We shouldn’t lie to ourselves. Yet, we do. Why? Think hard to find out if you’re actually lying to yourself or not.

If you need to be honest with yourself, why aren’t you? What’s stopping you from being the best version of yourself?

What’s stopping you from having an honest conversation with yourself? What’s stopping you from feeling?

Are you sad? Are you happy? Are you excited about something? What’s going on?

What’s got you down right now? Don’t let anything keep you down. You’re the maker of your own destiny!

Do you believe in fate? You were meant to read this.

Is this how you want to live? If it is not, then you need to be honest with yourself and change it. Any change starts with you.

What are you willing to do to be the best version of yourself?


Happiness is contagious. The way that you feel can motivate someone else to feel that way.

If you’re feeling happy, then enjoy it! I think that we shouldn’t take happiness for granted.

Share it! Show it! Make the world see the way that you feel. It’s actually not that difficult to do so, and everyone will notice.

Yell it to the world! Enjoy it. Make others enjoy themselves.

I’ve seen that reaching a bliss state is not possible when you’re lying to yourself, so you need to change that.

If you want to have bliss, then you need to be OK with how things are, where you are, who you are. You need to just enjoy how things are.

Being happy is a conscious decision that you make every day. I’m truly happy about being alive, about being able to share this with you.

What makes you happy?

You Decide

Everything that you do is your choice! You’re the one choosing what to wear, what to say, what to think.

Why would you decide to keep things from your mind? Don’t! You need to deal with everything that pops up.

Why would you decide to ignore something that’s bothering you? Don’t! If something is bothering you, deal with it.

Don’t ignore, don’t keep things at bay… the only way forward is by dealing with things. That’s really the only way forward!

By growing. By dealing with everything, the little and the big stuff. That way, you are going to grow your personality, you’re going to become more confident in yourself.

Growing means making decisions. Start making decisions now.

Did you decide to ignore something? Avoiding things is not a good practice for the soul.

Have you decided to be happy, yet? If not, do it! It’s as simple as that :)

I honestly believe that we all should aim towards being happy.

That should be our end goal, no matter what.

Is happiness your goal? If not, make it.

February 20th, 2021